WAW1978-Part 5

[chicki]

WAW,

That is a good one...until boredom or dislike to us part.I will have to use that one..he he he

I feel like that too esp. lately..I am thinking I might be ready to "date" or just enjoy meeting new members of the opposite sex...

I dont think I will do the M thing again..so many couples out there w/ out the M seem to be doing fine..no after the honeymoon blues...

[Heimlich]

Maybe this is just me, but the "marriage" is just a piece of paper. It's all of the other stuff that makes a committed R a real marriage. To me, with or without the piece of paper, it's the feelings that make a lifelong partnership. Basically, I'm just saying that you'll fall back in love with your H or with someone else, have a wonderful life, and whehter or not you are legally married, it'll be the same R.

Egads, did that make ANY sense?

BD

[waw1978]

You made perfect sense.

[Nomopo]

Darth Vader. Thats sooo cool.

Not sure if that was a little (or a lot) sarcastic, since you weren't even born when Star Wars came out, but I will post a picture after Halloween!

[waw1978]

I know I like the whole Star Wars theme! Wasn't being sarcastic.

[Not Much Left]

They really should put that into vows, I like it. And at the end you get to just say, "no heart feelings, I never did love you!"

[waw1978]

LMAO...thats a good one CVA! I think we have all become randy cynics at this point.

A little update:

My Dad and I had a heart to heart. He thinks my M is over and that I need to move on. He feels that I am just getting steam rolled by the H still and will be taken to the cleaners in the D. This is coming from a man who took his first wife (my Mom) to the cleaners the first time (hid all his assets in my Grandmothers name, I know really noble of him) and then had the favor returned when his second W took him to the cleaners...he left literally with his clothes and his truck. Almost like a country song, she even kept his horses (and sold them dirt cheap).

So here it is 4 months later. H has given up. I am still here.
I am penniless, H is living high on the hog. Planning fancy vacations while I am still paying the mortgage and all that until we can sell the house and not lose money on the damn thing. I am telling you, do not buy a house built in the Civil War error cause you think it would be cool to have a historical home...there is nothing cool about having to replace EVERYTHING! Try unloading this POS. Almost impossible. Now I know why it was on the market for like a year before we came along.

Still not getting any affections. Don't even have my dog waiting to curl up with me on the couch. I guess today is a bad day for me.

I have decided to go on the pub crawl with the 24 year hold hottie...looks like Jason Statham BTW. Figure its pretty innocent. No intentions just some pure fun. Maybe he will put the moves on me or something, wink wink. Thats for you Chicki & Kelley.

[Not Much Left]

(((WAW)))
Sorry your having a bad day. SOunds like just for your financial future you need to take a stand. It is BS that he would take advantage of you that way.

Maybe your JS date will take advantage of you in another way!
Be careful though, we men are pigs.

C

[Heimlich]

I'm with CVA, time for you to stand up and take, yes take, what's rightfully yours from your H. You're letting him walk all over you financially just like you let him walk all over you emotionally (that's why you got out, right?). STOP. Stand up for yourself. If it's your dog, dammnit, fight him for her. Show him a strong, confident woman. He'll probably pee in his panties and go running to his mommy.

Either get a lawyer or get your H to a medtiation so you can mediate a settlement of your assets.

CVA, don't forget, women are pigs too. They just hide it better than we do. Be careful there too, though.

BD

[Kelley]

Heim, you are right. I think us women can be worse than men and the bad thing about it is if we turn on the charm, we have easier time turning the man into putty.

I will have to look up that Jason Stratham guy and see what he looks like. Go out and have some FUN.