Luke, There's nothing wrong with letting her find her way to the airport alone, no explanation is required. Don't let the anger cloud how you deal with her in the separation though e.g. vindictively closing bank accounts. I know it's tempting to do. Remember it's the kids that matter here not getting back at her. Even when separated you two still have to get along and raise your kids as best you can, whether single or together. I try to keep that in mind with my own sitch, it's tough sometimes, I know. I too went through the anger stage and started verbally striking back at her, I don't know whether you can avoid it (or whether you should even try) but just try to be aware that the anger is there and very real. It's a tough stage to deal with but all I can say is that I've been through it and I survived, you will too!
