Exactly! However this works out, recovered M or the Big D. My life will be fulfilled.


I actually have an Aunt who has been waiting for husband to die for the last 5 years. No joke. He has been a PIA for the last like 25-30 years, she cannot stand him but won't divorce him. Since he had a major heart malfunction about 5 years ago in has been in a nursing home and refuses to partake in his own recovery. So she dutifully brings him fried foods and cartons of cigarettes each week. Another distateful family joke. That she is killing him slowly and legally.


Me: 30
EX-H: 37
DD: 5
Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC.
Divorce Final 8/14/08.
Trying to move on with new life.