I was away this weekend & at my cousins baby shower when she told my mother she will hook me up w/ one her H's freinds. I was just waiting for my mom's reply of "oh know she is still M",blah, blah, but she didint! She smiled and said oh your finding one just like your H? Her H is terrfic, I think she won the lotto there. He is Mexican and very much the family man. My cousin is pregnat w/ twins (in vitro b/c she is 41, not b/c she cant have). She has had four kids fine,but her H died some time ago. This man really wants kids of his own even though he loves hers as his own...
Whenever I mention me dating to my mom she gives me a lecture even though she absolutley feels only hatred towards my H.