Hi Sandi, am sorry to hear about your med problems. Hope everything gets straightened out for you. My W came home about 6ish last nite, while my S was leaving to go back to school. She tried to make small talk with me, I just basically looked at her and tried to listen. I could tell she was half upset at me b/c I wasnt paying much attention to her, but I wasnt in a mood to listen anyway. Talked about our appts with the same orthopedist this friday, and a few other things. She didnt talk about her weekend, other than to show me a purse she had bought my D for her birthday next month. I would think that if she had a great weekend, she would have made that known to me, dont you think? I have been talking to a work friend who has been going through this for the last 9 months, although they are in counseling b/c each wants their M to work. He also thought that if the weekend was great for my W, she would have made sure I knew about it just so she could feel better. So here I am at lunch today just writing my thoughts. My W knew about what i did for the w/e b/c she talked to my D before she came home. My D and b/f and I had a good time at the fall fest we went to yesterday, and really enjoyed ourselves. Made a point to go back next year. Dont know what tonite will bring with the W, but I will continue to listen and be nice and kill her with kindness. I did notice last nite that the doc gave her a new script on friday, cant remember the name. I think now that with everything that is going on with work and the R, she doesnt know how to handle her life. Interesting to see what comes of the appt with othorpedist on friday. Mine I am sure will just maybe nerve damage or muscle damage, but my W has a bulging disc, and may need surgery. One day at a time. Patience, patience, patience. Need to get back to work. Thanks for listening.
