I don't think you can do much better for advice than to read Michele's book "The Sex-Starved Marriage", and also get your wife to read it! Read the threads here - especially StarvingInFlorida - they tell a true story. I've been where you are, and I've been married a lot longer (24 years this June!). Trust me, it can get a lot better. The main thing is, your wife must be willing to read the book with an open mind. Once she's read it, there's a very good chance she will be more open to the fact that there is a problem in your marriage - if one partner has a problem, they both do. The book is packed with good advice.
