My H told me the same excuse! He said he was 6 months ahead of me in the process of detaching. Maybe he was right but it feels so unfair! Just agree. She is already out he door, her heart is out the door. Chasing her will move her out the door faster. In fact the only thing that will give her pause is DBing immediately. That will take a lot of positive confidance. You need to have the confidance that you can be happy without her and the afith that she will be with you in the long run.
Re God,etc. I did read that certain religions have higher divorce rates per capita on a Christian marriage website. It did mention that Retro, which is Catholic based, has helped decrease the numbers of Catholic break ups, while Evangeical Christian divorces are on the rise. Followed by Muslim and Jewish numbers. Atheists being the lowest for some interesting reasons.
Anywho believe in prayer and have faith that you will have the same Northern Star someday. She will see that the grass is not greener if you have some patience.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."