HB, hang in there. There are bound to be regression sometimes. I see it in H when I tick him off. I have not been wearing my wedding ring because I said I won't until there are only 2 person in the R. But H has been wearing his. One time we argued and he threw his ring into the drawer. He said he wouldn't wear it since I am not in this M. I didn't say a thing. Two days later, it's back on his finger. What I am saying is watch your H. He may have his moments, or even OW may have called him. The point is if he can resist after the initial contact, or initial sadness and bounce back, it is OK. Act As If there is no contact, that he is only having a bad moment. Regardless of whether there is contact or not, he will see that you are supportive and give him strength to "fight the evil".