The first thing I would tell here is to come here! That is of course if you are comfortable with her here, also tell her to get the books...and go slow, and to be open.
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!