I feel like I'm in a holding pattern. Each day that we don't speak feels like she's drifting farther and farther away. And since we only seem to speak when she needs something, it feels like what we do say is wasted. What if when I give her all her stuff she cuts off all communication? I know the OP has been giving her ultimatums to get her stuff or else, so she has stepped up efforts. And despite my fears of her cutting off contact when she does get her stuff, the reason I haven't gotten it done is lack of time. I have to make photocopies of all the business stuff, copy pictures, DVDs, CDs. I'd have to quit my job for a couple of weeks to get this all done. And as long as she's sleeping with the OP she is not allowed in the house. What has happened for those of you in the smae spot? Once your WAS got all their belongings, did they stop contacting you? Was it "final"? I don't want her to forget about me.
"In every marriage more than a week old, there are grounds for divorce. The trick is to find, and continue to find, grounds for marriage." -- Robert Anderson
