Hang in there! The retro weekend isn't long away now and it will help! I would just try to detach as much as you can right now, just be calm and make sure you get to the weekend. Our H are so confused they just don't know if they are coming or going, and the one major thing I learnt is that we expect so much of there "return" we want things to be all wonderful and see them back to us 100%, but they are dealing with so much emotion that it will take them along time to wade through it all, my H biggest problem was the guilt, he didn't believe he deserved us, so this led to alot of problems... Just get to the weekend and see what happens from there, this was my cut off, if the weekend didn't help then I was prepared to say enough, I had given all I could at that point...so just see how you feel, how you both feel after the weekend.
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
