Even though your process is slower, you are still moving in a good direction!
My H is still trying and I am only trying to focus on that! Although sometimes its hard, especially this week as its coming to the annv of the 1st bomb, and so things seem to be in the front of my mind right now! But h continues to try and thats all I can ask for, he even begin classes tonight to convert to my religion, it has never been something that I have asked him to do, or expected...he wants to, as the kids and myself are catholic and he feels that this is something he wants to do, so it has totally been his choice. We had our retro on Saturday and it went well, was about trust and forgiveness, so I think in dialogue we will get alot of things worked through, and I look forward to that!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!