Your H may not be making the progress that you want, but he is still making it! He is fighting against this the only way he knows how right now, so it really a move in the right direction!
Just hang in there and keep doing what you are doing!
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!