CVA - thin PJ's & Massages

[Heimlich]

Next time my brother goes to rehab at TIRR, I'll see if I can go down. Wine bar. Yeah, baby!

Seriously, CVA, you are status quo with the W for months. Not good, not bad. You have been in an apartment and being family guy for months exept that you don't sleep in the same house as your family. Sorry, that's not a family.

Question: is the continued massages in the thin PJs getting you closer to where you want to be? Maybe it is and giving your W the space she needs is how you're going to get back together. On the other hand, going to "your" house daily (when you're not in Canada) to play family -- is that moving you closer to reconciliation? You're gettign closer to looking at buying another house, that might start giving your W the emotional space she needs to start really thinking about you and yuor R.

I'll conclude by saying that I've had a wee bit of whiskey (geaux Saints, 1-4, woohoo) and am currently watching the Big Lebowksi, which further encourages adult beverage consumption for me.

Anyway, you need to walk that fine line of not pushing but showing your W that you're preparing to move forward. If I come up with any brilliatn ideas to help you with that, I'll let you know. Just my 1 penny at the moment.

BD