I almost know, though, if I do that, W and I will be making "real" arrangements for being S / toward D? As I will probably just want to be at "my" house vs the other way around.
Are you saying that you hanging around her house all the time is keeping her from filing?
Originally Posted By: CVA
I also know that "our" house will begin to deteriorate without me keeping it up. Not smart if I want it to retain the value so I am sure "type A CVA" won't let that happen either. I will just be more stretched/ tired.
Um, CVA, can't you hire people to keep the place up? Does it have to be you? I understand you want the kids' house to be nice and to protect your investment, but why do you have to do all the work yourself?
Originally Posted By: CVA
All I know is I want to got to the wine bar w/ Nomo thursfay night!!!