I was real tired and just said " I am not thick you know" . To which she stormed out of the house. mmmmm
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I was tired on Saturday & said something similar Dave. Shouldn't surprise me that we seem to make the same moves at the same time, but it still does!
I also got the same sort of response, "See, this is why I can't come back, you just can't keep from talking, can you?"
I think you have something there, it's the offensive posture so that we're placed in the defensive one.
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How is anything going to work if she cant let me make the odd mistake and have doubts without threats.
I think that's the whole idea, as long as she hasn't made the decision to reinvest, the occassional mistakes are useful as a buffer against having to make any decisions regarding that.
You handled that very well with the response to the letter, "I'm sorry & I understand", perfect for taking the air out of the exchange.
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I have to say it has affected me though , and I am annoyed that I have let it.
I'm with you on this today Dave.
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While I would like to discuss all this with W now is not the time its back to my Goals.
Great comeback in attitude, you sure know how to get right back up quickly.
