muddled and angry: Puddle's third thread

[S.T. _I Made It!]

Don't EVER decide to be okay with the women there. If he needs to go, then let him do what he thinks he needs to do. It is not your job to control his life, that's his job. And because you are two separate people, you will NEVER agree to everything.

Now on the Homer thing, I've never read it, but if your REALLY thinking about saying, your right this won't work, lets talk to a tax person..etc. you better be sure that if he decides...yes, finally she sees it my way and lets get a D... is okay for you. Because you can't change your mind. well, you can if you really want to, but we already know that your H thinks your unable to make decisions, and that would be a BIG change in decision making. So be absolutely sure.

I remember telling my H the night we talked... well, I did most of the talking, he couldn't hardly look at me... and I told him if this is what you really want, then we have to go to a C. I never said that I agreed with him, but I accepted his wants.

on your new "phase". yes, I think it's just part of the process we go thru. Everything you've gone thru is just a reminder of my own sitch last year. I even started writing out a list of everything I wanted in a man, whether it be someone new or whatever. I almost got kinda excited having the faith that God was going to provide for me a wonderful man in the future.

I know that right now your H is totally not the man he could be. Now if he doesn't ever figure that out or just continues to make his life miserable, then there is nothing you can do, and I don't expect you to wait for him forever.

well, I will let you go