Ugh, the way they play with us. She might have thrown that out there just to see how you would react...
When I wrote that, I was thinking of the letter, but then stepped back and thought, maybe this applies to the "trip to her sister's" as well...you reacted just as she expected you would. They are afraid to think about coming back, when they assume that we will mercilessly judge them. But it does go to the whole mind-reading thing.
Sounds like you may have to refresh some of DR...if it bothered you, you are probably still hopeful for some kind of chance with her.
Dave, this all sucks. But you are one of the most level-headed people here that I know. Next time it comes up, do the As If and wish her a good time. Hang in there, friend...
