I've been gone quite a bit lately. I've been digging deep into my new house b/c I sold my other one! I have to be out of here by Dec. 8th and need to get the new one move-in ready!
Also, my divorce is days from being final. I thought it would be Friday, but still waiting. Probably next week. I am ready for that closure.
H has been spinning even more. The more I let go of him, the more crazy he becomes. My kids have been through too much. He cannot see past his own face.
His choices are beginning to catch up with him. OW#2 has turned out to be a stalker psycho. She has her claws in and he doesn't know what to do. She stops by his place of work to visit (wives and kids do this often) and brings "goodies" to all the men there. H told me that 95% of the time, she doesn't even call. He told me he would tell her to stop. I told him it was his life and decisions were his b/c it didn't affect me personally.
On a much more important note, my 18 year old nephew was diagnosed w/cancer two weeks ago. He is a senior in high school. The cancer spread to his kidneys. He is going through chemo right now. The cancer is responding and he is slowly healing. Please pray for him. This has been another hard time for my kids. In the past 1 1/2 years, they lost my dad to cancer, their parents are divorcing and their cousin is fighting cancer.
I am trying to catch up on everyone. I hope everyone is hanging in there. I will continue checking in and encouraging my new friends!
bambam
Me-BS 38 X-WS 36 Separated 11/15/2006 Filed for D 8/1/2007 Divorce Final 12/21/2007 S13, S13 (twins), D9 Married 13 Yrs Together 20 Yrs
