Now I've done it.... again #4?

[nephartiti]

Thanks, MK. You are so good at messaging. "I want my H back home healthy with his family."

I have told her repeatedly "This is my marriage and my family. If he wants to make the effort to make things better, then I will definitely not turn him away. I owe it to my children to make things work with their father. Plus I love him." She literally has yelled at me and threatened to never go to a family function if he is there. I know I want my marriage and husband. My weakness is when she starts speculating on what his intentions are and what he's been doing. I tell her as little as possible now.

Yes, she is married to my brother. Her previous R of 8 years was with an abusive man who almost killed her. She is a bit of a man hater. She means well, I think. She's just sure she has my H pegged, and I have battered W syndrome and don't know what's best for me. So she's going to beat it into me.