I stopped one well meaning friend by just saying, "I would take him back in a heart beat. I just want my husband back home healthy with his family." That shuts people up big time. The caveat is "healthy" which implies that MLC keeps the WAS from making good decisions so LBS has to wait iy out diligently, right?
Is she married to your brother?
There are more people out there who take back WAS than let on.
There is one woman on the View who just spoke up about taking back her Christian husband who impregnated the OW. She said she kicked him out because his infidelity was ruining her career as a stand up comediene in the Christian world. But she loves him and wants to work things out. She wants to forgive him. They have a kid too, I think? And she said this on TV in front of millions of fans!
You could say that to one lady. "We want to work things out, at least I do."
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."