Try (as hard as it may seem) to not think about her and the OM...if the image of them together does pop up in your head, picture her nagging him or him sneaking around on her. What goes around comes around...
Concentrate on your beautiful kids. Goes without saying the priority they have in your life.
I've been dating for moths...keeping it very light, but my rebound GF in March was 28, very pretty, and had a body that my ex could only achieve thru plastic surgery...she really helped me forget the ex-wife. I've just met a former high school classmate and we are perfect for one another! I am so happy...everything works out for the best. You'll get thru this buddy...looking good and living well is the best revenge.
Me - 46 She - 36 Daughter - 10 Married 10 yrs 1st Bomb Date 12/17/06 (Merry Christmas!) D Bomb in January (Happy New Year!) Every other week custody of D10 She has OM who helped her walk away Divorced 07/05/07