Originally Posted By: JoieDeVivre
If a WS does not leave marriage for AP within 6 months, they probably never will.


Interesting.. Haven't read that before. Maybe they won't leave the marriage but, will they ever leave the AP either?? Seems like my H is too scared to give up either at the moment.

Originally Posted By: JoieDeVivre

"Sometimes your greatest asset is simply your ability to stay with it longer than anyone else."


I've never had the desire to run a marathon but I guess I'm running in it anyway.. Problem is that I know ow will not give up until H is living in her house/trapped by her web of selfishness. I have no doubt that she will do ANYTHING to get him.

H is having really down day and I'm just trying to act "as if" and laugh and have a good time. I caught him looking at me across the church... I just smiled and he smiled back. All of these things that I used to take as "positives" seem more like "neutrals" these days. If H still doesn't want to commit to our M with all of these supposed positives, then I don't know that there is really anything else I can do.

Last edited by lovelyolive; 10/14/07 07:46 PM.