Mk, I think you and H are dancing. He put his hand out a few times and was rejected. Now he has his defenses up. Someone has to be strong enough to keep putting themselves out there until the other is willing to come half way. Otherwise, you will keep dancing and stepping on each other's feet.

You told me "Safe path home." IF, and big IF, you want him home, you have to let him know you will accept him after his mistakes. This has to be done subtly and consistently. They are mistakes. They are BIG mistakes, but they are still just that. He is human and he F-ed up big time. You kids are young. They will not hold a grudge at this point. What anyone else thinks, doesn't really matter.

Of course, no one will blame you if you throw in the towel. You have fought a good fight. What ever you choose, you will be blessed.

"In my heart
in my heart
I did no crime." Tori Amos (Razberry Swirl)


Me29
H33
D9 months
S2
S9(previous R)
Sep 8-19-07
I file 11-5-07
H home (Retro) 2-15-08
"Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9