A few slips here and there but, I think overall the days worth of conversation between the two of you was beneficial. There is a better understanding now of how each of you feel. And you are right. She needs to vent her feelings. She needs to express the anger she has inside for your actions. That is part of her healing process.
I'm ditto with GD on re-reading what you posted Heim, & the other thoughts on where a continuation of "more of the same" is going to take you.
