Now I've done it.... again #4?

[nephartiti]

H has a toothbrush in the bathroom from when he brushed teeth with S2 last night. I don't know why,but that excites me too no end.

I have to find a way to set a boundary with my SIL. I try not to bring up H, but she always says something like "Has psycho called?" The, if I try to be vague, I get a full interogatiion. She is pushing so hard for divorce. She feeds all my fears. Actually, it was here idea to do the last stakeout. I didn't need too much convincing, but I probably wouldn't have gone on my own. She thinks H is lying about everything and just trying to get on my good side to protect OW. I really don't beleve this, but it still stirs this bad feeling. My imagination is bad enough. I don't need someone adding to it. What's the bet way to handle this? I was tinking I will just have to be straight forward and say something like, "I know you really care about me and are trying to protect me in your own way. However, I am an adult and have to make my own decisions regarding myself and my family. I would appreciate it if you not bring up my situation with my marriage. If I want your opinion, I will ask you." Maybe the last two sentences are too harsh and unnecessary?