I'm probably at a better place to move on with my life.
That is a good thing ... one of the reasons we're all here. You deserve a gold medal for your perseverance. I believe this quote fits well!
"Don't let the fear of the time it will take to accomplish something stand in the way of your doing it. The time will pass anyway; we might just as well put that passing time to the best possible use."
In all my reading/research about affairs, I read this ... not sure how factual it is but it's something I think about: If a WS does not leave marriage for AP within 6 months, they probably never will.
So I keep that in mind, and the fact that my H is still here, and yours, too, right? So here is another quote that fits us DBers so very well.
"Sometimes your greatest asset is simply your ability to stay with it longer than anyone else."
