farm, I think it is wonderful to see that you are working on reconciliation with your ex husband. It is also timely for your post because there have been a number of posts from people feeling that maybe things have gone too far with their spouse and that reconciling is not probably. Plus it is fantastic for people to read that divorce does not necessarily mean it is the end of the story unless that is what one wants.
From my perspective, I would agree with redheadwife that he may be a little nervous about being affectionate. At the same time I think it is a good idea to take things slow as you rebuild your relationship. A good foundation "communication" is critical.
Thank you for your thread.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God