...I believe that she has convinced herself that I am having an affair of my own. I believe that she thought, rather the go to the gym, I went to see my lover for some "reunion sex" with my lover after having been gone on a business trip.
I see this as both good and bad. The good side is that she sees me GALing and detaching. The bad side is that it justifies both her affair and her desire to divorce.
This issue seems to have resolved itself. While exiting the gym, I saw her car in the parking lot (didn't see her in the gym - it's a very large facility, and I wasn't looking for her- or anybody).
I believe that her visit to check to see that I was, in fact, at the gym, and to see if I have a workout partner (there is some serious middle-age talent at this gym). Also, she also went in order to get all sweaty and fit for her visit with her boyfriend this week.
All in all, I am glad that she checked-up on me (and that I passed her test). If I am correct that she was checking on me, she would only do so if she still cared about me.
