(((Amy))) just stopping by to say Hi. Hang in there, sweetie. Keep staying strong for the sake of your kids. He needs to fix himself. He isn't capable of being your H right now, or a dad to the kids as he isn't capable of caring for himself.

It appears that your H's indecision about two women is causing an issue, not him LOVING two women. My H went through the same thing with his OW and me. He "loves/d" us both but knows he can't have both. He was/is scared to be with me, but feels his R with OW will be tainted if he were to leave me for her. Your H would feel better if he just decided which way to go and then went that way. But, you can't control that. You can only control what you do.

Hang in there! Stay strong!

Hugs,
Em


Me: 34
H: 39
M: 7 yrs
H A 12/05-8/07

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