Miracles

[Dr LOve]

That was the end. Combine that with her Saturday comment that I spend an inordinate amount of time on my laptop, and I believe that she has convinced herself that I am having an affair of my own. I believe that she thought, rather the go to the gym, I went to see my lover for some "reunion sex" with my lover after having been gone on a business trip.

I see this as both good and bad. The good side is that she sees me GALing and detaching. The bad side is that it justifies both her affair and her desire to divorce.

Hey Mark,

You’re not as smart as ya think "I can anticipate your questions already...."

Nope I was NOT thinking any of these questions. I too have found this part of Galing the "glass half empty or half full" syndrome. Detaching / galing is very interesting.
Depending if the person sees the (glass half Full).
"OMG Manuel / Mark do have a life. I guess they really don't need me. I better change my way's to get him back"

Or half empty) "OMG Manuel / Mark do have a life. They really don't need me. I might as well move on"

Somehow we need to find a common ground. One that says I need you but I'm not dependent on you.
I think I have showed my W that I am no longer dependent on her so now I carefully need to show her she is still needed. Now be careful on the definition of need here. I mean it more as "wanted" not needed as “I can't live with out ya”.

Loved the joke

Husband