Last sentence reminds me of something that happened on Thursday afternoon. Remember, I returned from my business trip and announced that I was going to the gym. She then became very upset about my lack of contributions re: housework.

Fast-forward to my return from gym after being gone for a few hours. She said, "I thought you went to the gym."

Me: I did go
Her: How come you aren't all sweaty
Me: Um... I took a shower...
Her: Oh, so you showered there?
Me: Yeah, I ran for an hour on the treadmill. It gets kinda messy when I do that (in case you don't know, a person sweats more working out on a stationary machine because there is no wind to dry the sweat. It gets very messy... at least for me it does).

That was the end. Combine that with her Saturday comment that I spend an inordinate amount of time on my laptop, and I believe that she has convinced herself that I am having an affair of my own. I believe that she thought, rather the go to the gym, I went to see my lover for some "reunion sex" with my lover after having been gone on a business trip.

I see this as both good and bad. The good side is that she sees me GALing and detaching. The bad side is that it justifies both her affair and her desire to divorce.

I can anticipate your questions already.... Yes, I wear my wedding ring all the time, rarely removing it. No, I don't take any strange phone calls, and I don't sneak off to talk on my cell. No, she does not have access to any of my email accounts (nor do I have access to hers - at one time we were totally open). No, I don't go out alone very often (it's been several weeks). Yes, she does have access to the call log on my mobile phone (it's a company phone that locks itself, but it's not hard to figure out how to "crack" it).

It is indeed something she has fabricated out of nothing. I have never been unfaithful to her, and she knows it. IMO, in her mind, she wants me to have an affair.

I know, I know... I am not focusing on this!! Just commenting on an observation, that's all.

Now, if you will excuse me, I need to GAL... off to the gym to SWEAT!!!