We entertained her family last night. As you know, some of them support her getting a divorce (creepy, huh?). And as much as I would I would like to win them over, I am fully aware that too much too soon is a really bad idea. So I was friendly, cordial, and a good host. I did not hover. Indeed, at times I kept my distance, especially as the conversation dragged through past friends & classmates that I did not (and never will) know.
Originally Posted By: husband
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There will be no miracle tonite, or any time soon...
Thanks for the thought anyway...
Mark, As much as you may not believe Ya gota stay positive "self fulfilling prophesy" ya know. Please do as I have tried and expect the best but be prepared for the worst.
As expected, she slept on the couch last night. Sorry husband, but I did not for a minute expect that she would crawl into bed with me. It's been about two months of her refusing to sleep in the same bed together. At this point, if she were to do so, it would be sending a clear message that, at this point, she cannot convey.
She needs as many nodding heads in her family to pat her on the back and tell her that a divorce would be a good thing. And when they see that she is sleeping on the couch, they will say, "Wow, she's really serious!"
Also, she is traveling on business this week. I am not sure when she is leaving/returning. It really doesn't matter because she lies to me about where she is going, when she will return, what she is going to do, and whom she will be seeing. She leaves when she leaves, and returns when she returns. However, I do know that she will be reunited with her boyfriend...
I'm headed to the gym for an early morning workout...
