Wow, MK, your work environment is pretty spicy. About H's. A previous boss of mine used to have a saying about human beings and the power of choice.

"We can take a hammer and use it to build a house or to destroy one."

The potential for either lies within the same individual. We are complex beings each capable of great love and great evil. It is our choice how we use our power.

I think our H's were the wonderful men we thought they were. I think they still are buried in there somewhere. I see mine every once in a while. They are just so lost in their own twisted realities. We have to try not to take it personally.

MK, your co-workers are simply mirroring what you always say and know. The A is not about the LBS. Your H is in an MLC and has traded a wonderful and competent W for an incompetent OW. He is lost and temporarily insane. I could have told you you weren't crazy. \:\)


Me29
H33
D9 months
S2
S9(previous R)
Sep 8-19-07
I file 11-5-07
H home (Retro) 2-15-08
"Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9