Hey OldFool and everyone else,

I'm just checking in...can't get to sleep cuz I took a long nap this afternoon. Anyway, I quit my part-time job at QVC. I couldn't handle the customers. Most callers expect us to be fashion consultants. I had people calling and asking me to match up their "moleskin" slacks with a sweater. First of all, what the #!*&@$ is a moleskin? I quit after 2 weeks.

Other than that, everything is going ok. My brother/wife bought a house, so they'll be moving out soon. I'm thinking they will be moved into their new home by Thanksgiving.

I went out last night with a friend of mine. We went to this club called Bogey's. It's a nice place, and they play all kinds of music. The clientele is 45+ so I felt right at home.

I heard from the ex the beginning of Oct. He sent me an e-mail asking if he left his birth certificate behind. I replied but I haven't heard back.

As you can see...I haven't been doing much. I'm trying to stay busy. Holidays are coming, and I'm dreading it.

Well, OF, I wish only the best for you. I continue to include you in my prayers. I wish the best for everyone on these boards. We're in this together.

All my best,
alamogirl


Me - 48 (at time of 1st bomb)
H - 43
married - 16 Jul 94
no children
1st bomb - (said he was leaving) - 3 Jun 06
2nd bomb (said he was ready to file) - 10 Nov 06
H filed divorce - 17 Nov 06
Divorce finalized - 20 Jul 07