well Hi Cinders Our reconciliation is going well sooo far! the short version , huh?
2001 h's father dies 2003 h looses family business
2004-2005 H unhappy, brooding, angry....all those pre-mlc markers falling into place...denial anger
Nov 2005 starts new job...meets OW
March/April 2006 EA officially starts. I was away I come home to a very estranged H...
May 2005 BOMB ILYBINILWY, i want to try a R w/OW, new motorcycle, new friends, hobbies
June 2006 Moves out
Oct 2006 Moves in w/OW
Dec 2006 H files for D
June 2007 first court date
July 2007 H asks to and comes HOME to rebuild M a new man.
so a 4-5 yr MLC that had 18 months of replay? he was gone for just over a year. the man that came back is better. we are better...the M will be better
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest