well Hi Cinders
Our reconciliation is going well sooo far!
the short version , huh?

2001 h's father dies

2003 h looses family business

2004-2005 H unhappy, brooding, angry....all those pre-mlc markers falling into place...denial anger

Nov 2005 starts new job...meets OW

March/April 2006 EA officially starts. I was away
I come home to a very estranged H...


May 2005 BOMB
ILYBINILWY, i want to try a R w/OW, new motorcycle, new friends, hobbies


June 2006 Moves out

Oct 2006 Moves in w/OW

Dec 2006 H files for D

June 2007 first court date

July 2007 H asks to and comes HOME to rebuild M a new man.


so a 4-5 yr MLC that had 18 months of replay? he was gone for just over a year. the man that came back is better. we are better...the M will be better ;\)


Me 53
H 51
OW 25
Bomb may 06
left june 8/ 06
ILYBNILWY (twice!)
7/6/07 H wants to come home
7/21/07 H comes home
7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW
now piecing in earnest