I would say in order for anything to "start happening" in that area, maybe one of you needs to just "go for it." He may be thinking the same things you are and doesn't know how YOU will react if he tries something more.

If you are pretty sure about the fact that you two are working on reconciling, I would say go ahead & do what feels comfortable.


Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10