RJ, Thanks. You're right that it's only a matter of time before things aren't so good. I've been there. And I even said something to him about needing to make it through a rough patch in order for me to start to feel safe.
As for the sex thing, this has taken the past year of work. And it's been SO hard becuase of all the damage, as you said. There have been MANY times wehre I've done it despite not wanting to and feeling take for granted becuase I know how important it is for my H. In other words, that part became easier for me as I understood more about how this is such an important need for him.
CaseyMooCow (love the name), I'll chack out your threat. But mind you, my sitch is WAY more than what is just on this thread. My H and I have been on a MAJOR rollercoaster for teh past year and a half. LOTS of touch & goes. LOTS of significant backslides.
Shades, So nice to hear from you. Bogey (my dog) is doing better the past few days. But I know that in general, she is in bad shape. Just trying to spend quality time with her.
Married 9 years Kids 5 and 6 Bomb 2006 H back and forth for a year M now back on track
