Hi SM, I agree with you, it sounds like that friend has way too much influcence on your W. I don't know why, but we females tend to allow other women frriends to do that to us. I hope you are mistaken about her encouraging your W to D you, but I would not be surprised....it wouldn't be the first M that that was the casef.....allowing others to influence. I think it starts out with the women talking and crying on the other's shoulder and so forth....first thing you know, somebody is getting D. Truth be known, I bet the friend's second M isn't that great!
I am glad you and the S are going to the game. You do need to GAL and not just sit by to see what your W will do next. I hope your pain gets better and you all can really have a great time.
I know it is hard to stay positive with her going out and you are wondering what she is really doing, but try your best to keep cool and apply the DB techniques.
Talk to you later. Thanks for droping me a line.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
