Thank you for the encouragement. It is strange how parallel many of our lives are on the forum. It is a pretty predictable pattern and I am glad that DR tries to break the pattern or at least makes us aware of it. I guess my H is heading for Stage 4 now, seeking approval and the last stage will be Stage 5 Restoring Balance. The thought of his OW and me having a nice holiday lunch with all the family sounds disgusting. Now, I cannot believe my own Father put my Mom through this hell and she hid it from us.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."