What is reasonable and what is not?

[Startingover2]

I needed to post as things really hit the fan in about 5 minutes.

Exh was here. He was drinking. He is a weekend drinker. Things were ok. Then he wanted me to buy him an expensive quad to take hunting with him. I looked shocked. I said when/if we get married again that would be good, but probably not a smart thing right now. He blew up! He then went on to tell me that our relationship is all about this baby and nothing else. I have learned to not argue with someone that is drinking so I just sat there and didn't say anything.

He got up and was furious and said he was leaving. Grabbed the rest of his beer and left. Pulled out of here in a big hurry.

I am scared to death now that he is mad at me he will probably call OW. She doesn't mind that he drinks and will pat him on the back and tell him how wonderful he is.

I need to calm down. Why do I keep taking such a horrible man back over and over? I want to be strong. But I am so weak.