Well, the W was very adamant about being done and wants a D. She says she just couldn't do it. Can't let go of the hurt and resentment from the past and thinks she'll never be able to let go to be in a relationship with me. Talked to her quite a bit on the phone. Getting no where. Went over to the house and talked to her a bit more. I don't know.... She said she'll really think about going to Retrouvaille tonight. I really hope she would be willing to be open about it and go there. Does anyone have experience of S going to Retrouvaille leaning towards or wanting divorce and has change of mind afterward? Need some major hope right now....
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.
