Regardless where his head is at, this is good for you. Trust me on this. I've had xh and his mopey self at home, and trust me, worrying where he was all hours of the night made me crazy. At the time I was scared, too. Having his butt out and supporting himself (instead of me doing it) let us both cool off. All the times he's left, the initial 'moving-out' part is the worst. Once the dust settled, I always felt better. Probably not what you wanted to hear, but true. (And not that I would ever admit it at the time.)
This will help you clear your head. It will be okay. It may not even mean the end of your M. But it will help you get your sanity back. I promise.
