Its been a long day... H sat down with D's (I wasn't there)and explained he was moving out and why.
I feel as if I am handling it ok, I feel empowered by the fact that I have asked him to leave, rather than it be his choice to go. Hasn't stop me having a wobbly just and having a huge cry.
He said to D's that he has worked so hard and put in so many hours also the pressure from buying the property abroad that the pressure from it all has clouded his judgement and he has lost sight of what was important to him. He told them he loved me but not as a husband should love his wife. He cried while he told them this (very rare emotion for him, so important to mention).
He has just called to speak to s's, we spoke for a bit, I felt he was waffling, he sounded very tired and I guess he his feeling an emotional wreck. He is coming round tomorrow evening and sitting the boys down and telling them.
I don't think now that there is any hope of his coming home now. I had to do the dirty job, he was to spineless to do it, but it's what he wanted and i'm sure once the dust settles he will adapt and be happy that he has left.
XD
P/A confirmed 5/03/08
03/08 H said affair over, I dont think it is, h still doesn't want marriage
T: 13 M: 8 D:20 & 17 from Previous M S: 8 & 4 BS: May 07 ILYBNILWY S: 13/10/07
