That sucks about Sting. I didn't know that. I used to have so much respect for him. Vomit.

I understand how you feel, MK (betrayed and humiliated). I don't think I could look my H in the face right now either. I get the same impression about my H. He will hold onto OW for dear life b/c the thought of coming home, dealing with this mess and his guilt is too big--impossible. I thought we could get through this, but it is starting to look impossible to me too.

I do know that human beings can and do come through the most unthinkable situations and circumstances. Anything is possible. It takes great courage to open yourself up again and take that chance. I have a feeling that he doesn't think of himself as an ex-boyfriend. Even if you end in D, it is best if you can get along. I don't think I can with my H right now, but I know that is what would be best. That takes courage too--to overcome our own feelings and insecurities to do what we know is best. Sigh.

Best wishes, MK


Me29
H33
D9 months
S2
S9(previous R)
Sep 8-19-07
I file 11-5-07
H home (Retro) 2-15-08
"Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9