What good is a bandaid if the person really needs antibiotics? IF the MLCer has some serious unresolved emotional issues, a bandaid R does nothing but distract the MLCer from the issues...eventually they resurface and the MLCer still feels bad, lost, abandoned, whatever. JMO, of course!
Hugs, AH
This is so true.
My H OW seems to have stopped him gambling for a whole two months...(Apart from the few times my son has told me they have been to the arcades!!) If he has been distracted from this serious issue, then it will resurface in time - I have no doubt about that. Like you say, he needs anti-biotics not a band aid.
he also tried to get me to be OW to OW Infact the last time I saw him he sugested that we all live together. Thankfully I don't fancy living in cloud cookoo land!'
NC x
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.
Infact the last time I saw him he sugested that we all live together. Thankfully I don't fancy living in cloud cookoo land!'
