Wantlove, maybe it is time for tough love. Why is coming into the house when you are not there? Is he still living there? If not, change the locks and tell him you will get the mail to him whenever convenient. It does hurt when you are ignored. My H doesn't seem to care at all...he didn't respond when I told him DD was threatening to leave, etc. First, don't take it personally, it is him not you. You said you are doing things. Great! Keep at it, give yourself time to grieve and "act as if". I have been at it almost 2 years. It does get better.
Sitting quietly doing nothing, the flowers bloom effortlessly.
bomb: Jan 25, 2006 not seen since DD moved in with H - 9/1/08 H filed for divorce - 11/2008 Divorce dismissed by courts - 4/2010 still nothing
