Good morning, MK. I hope you are doing well. It sounds like the Aunties are trying to buy your H some time. Maybe they have seen some improvement in his appearance and attitude like you have. It sounds like they are trying to protect their family and your mom is protecting hers.
This is between you and your H. It's not really their fight to fight.
IMHO, if you think you might still want your H back, even a little, you might have to throw him a little bone eventually (like maybe letting him put S2 into the car seat). From what I have read here, he has a history of insecurity. He probably will only be able to take so much rejection before he decides it's hopeless. Just a thought.
Have a wonderful day. Is it raining where you are? You probably had this weather yesterday?
Me29 H33 D9 months S2 S9(previous R) Sep 8-19-07 I file 11-5-07 H home (Retro) 2-15-08 "Today is the tomorrow of yesterday." -- S9