Well, keep it up!! Let him see you will be just fine w/o him. He's NOT your lifeline. If he is having MLC, as we all know, they last for quite awhile and who knows where in the process he is at this point.

I would say a HUGE MUST is to keep up the "looking good/acting/feeling good" and DO NOT act like you even care that he is trying to be sympathetic or friendly w/ you. Act like you could care less!!!!

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10