This might sound horrible, but a lot of times when I'm feeling down or frustrated, etc., I think about other people's sitches here and remind myself where I WAS and where I/we are NOW and just feel grateful and blessed that we made it through and aren't back where we were almost a year ago.
that doesn't sound horrible AT ALL. I do that a lot - it helps me so much to see the progress made. 1 year ago - i was in IC, depressed, hated myself, felt like life was hopeless and everyone hated me. Now I really do like myself and it feels so good.
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.